We Are Honored to Be Featured in Love Inc. Magazine

We are thrilled to share that our work as a wife and wife wedding planning duo has been featured in Love Inc Mag. This recognition means a lot to us because it highlights something close to our hearts: the beauty and freedom found in queer wedding ceremonies.

In queer weddings, the “white space” — those moments and traditions not yet written — is where the most meaningful and intentional rituals come to life. We love how the queer community embraces this freedom to create new ways to celebrate love and partnership. It’s a space full of creativity, identity, and deep connection.

How Couples Enter Their Ceremony Space Sets the Tone

One of the most powerful moments in any wedding is how the couple enters the ceremony space. We believe this moment sets the tone for the entire day. Supporting couples as they choose to enter together as equal partners is a core part of our philosophy.

Whether walking down the aisle side-by-side or entering from two different points to meet in the middle, this choice reflects shared strength and partnership. It’s a simple but profound way to show that the day is about unity and equality.

For example, we often recommend couples consider the flow of their ceremony space carefully. This might mean working with a venue that allows for two entrances or designing a custom aisle that invites both partners to walk in together. These details create a welcoming and intentional atmosphere.

Creating a Day That Reflects Love and Identity

Our goal is to help couples create a wedding day that truly reflects their foundation of love and identity. This means moving beyond traditional expectations and embracing what feels authentic to each couple.

Intentional choices, like how couples enter the ceremony, the rituals they include, and the way they celebrate, all contribute to a day that feels deeply personal. We see this as the heart of our work — turning small details into unforgettable moments.

One way we support this is by collaborating with creative vendors who understand and celebrate queer weddings. For instance, working with photographers who capture the genuine emotions and planners who respect the couple’s vision makes all the difference.

How Intentional Wedding Planning Supports Queer Couples

Intentional wedding planning means focusing on what matters most to the couple. For queer couples, this often involves creating new traditions or adapting existing ones to fit their story.

We find that couples appreciate having the space to invent rituals that celebrate their partnership in ways that feel right to them. This might include writing their own vows, choosing symbolic gestures, or designing ceremonies that honor their identities.

One service we offer is full wedding planning and coordination tailored to these needs. We guide couples through every step, from envisioning the ceremony to managing the timeline on the day. This support helps reduce stress and ensures the day flows smoothly.

Highlighting Queer Wedding Traditions in Love Inc. Magazine

The freedom to create new traditions is one of the most exciting parts of queer weddings. These Queer wedding traditions often blend elements from different cultures, personal stories, and shared values.

For example, some couples choose to include rituals like handfasting, unity candles, or planting a tree together. Others might invent entirely new ceremonies that symbolize their unique bond.

We encourage couples to explore what resonates with them and to feel confident in making their wedding a true reflection of their love. Love Inc. Magazine has incredible resources for couples to explore!

Collaborating with Creative Vendors Who Understand

A wedding day is a team effort. We are grateful to work with vendors who share our commitment to celebrating LGBTQ+ love. Their creativity and sensitivity help bring each couple’s vision to life.

For example, we often recommend working with vendors like:

• The Butterfly Effect Weddings — Our own wedding planning and coordination service that focuses on intentional, stress-free experiences for queer couples. We help couples design meaningful days that reflect their identity and love. Learn more

  
  

• Love Inc Mag — A publication that elevates LGBTQ+ voices and shares inspiring stories about queer weddings and relationships. Their platform helps spread awareness and celebrate diversity. Visit Love Inc Mag

  
  

• Local queer-friendly florists and photographers — Vendors who understand the importance of inclusivity and help create a welcoming atmosphere through their craft.

  
  

Working with these trusted partners ensures every detail supports the couple’s story and values.

Why We Do What We Do

Seeing intentional choices come to life on a wedding day is why we love this work. It’s about more than just planning an event. It’s about creating a space where love and identity shine through every detail.

We feel honored to support couples as they step into their ceremony space together, equal and strong. These moments set the tone for a day filled with joy, connection, and celebration.

Thank you to Love Inc. Magazine for featuring us and for elevating LGBTQ+ voices. We also want to thank the creative vendor teams who make these wedding days possible. Together, we help build new traditions that honor love in all its forms.

We invite couples to embrace the freedom to invent their own rituals and to enter their ceremony spaces with intention and pride. Your wedding day is a reflection of your unique story — and we’re here to help you tell it beautifully.

If you want to learn more about how we can support your wedding planning journey, visit The Butterfly Effect Weddings and let’s create something unforgettable together.

The Creative Vendor Team:

Venue: @countryvillawedding

Planning & Day of Coordination: @thebutterflyeffectweddings

Photographer: @rgbtv_weddings

Videographer: @untldimage

Ceremony Soloist: @john.bermeo1

DJ: @prodjservices

Coffee Cart: @the_espresso_experience

Florist: @thenewleaf_757

Catering: @laspalmasvirginiabeach

H&MUA: @goregeousmakeupbyliv